Comments on: The Bitch Please Advice Column http://bangsandabun.com/2010/07/2019/ Tue, 07 Feb 2012 22:36:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: gemma http://bangsandabun.com/2010/07/2019/comment-page-1/#comment-6278 gemma Thu, 15 Jul 2010 21:51:48 +0000 http://bangsandabun.com/?p=2019#comment-6278 well i was going to have a good rant n get it all out but i dont have the energy! in two weeks my brother - who's two years younger than me; is marrying his evil girlfriend of six years. shes unattractive inside and out ! shes unbelievably selfish and he can do sooooooo much better. when they first started dating - when they were 18 I didnt think it would last so i just let him get on with it. now its way too late for me to say - "hey little bro your girlfriends a bitch !" my parents hate her and we all slag her off- are we bad people - no way but i do kinda feel bad. he thinks hes happy - they seem to work - even tho they row like hell! I think the fact that hes my only brother , and i love him to death - but he pisses me off n we are very different , but i know if he hated my partner i would think he was a tool for saying so. sometimes you just have to let it go ! shes not robbing him or cheating on him , shes just a cow n hey some women are just like that. I think if you love your brother and hes happy - let it go , if hes not then when they next row or if he mentions he wants out steer him in that direct but the basic rule is stay out of it - because us strong women can come between families and im sure men prefer the love of a woman over the sisterly love - shit but true! or failing that find him a perfect mate n make it happen ;) well i was going to have a good rant n get it all out but i dont have the energy!
in two weeks my brother – who’s two years younger than me; is marrying his evil girlfriend of six years. shes unattractive inside and out ! shes unbelievably selfish and he can do sooooooo much better. when they first started dating – when they were 18 I didnt think it would last so i just let him get on with it. now its way too late for me to say – “hey little bro your girlfriends a bitch !” my parents hate her and we all slag her off- are we bad people – no way but i do kinda feel bad. he thinks hes happy – they seem to work – even tho they row like hell!
I think the fact that hes my only brother , and i love him to death – but he pisses me off n we are very different , but i know if he hated my partner i would think he was a tool for saying so. sometimes you just have to let it go ! shes not robbing him or cheating on him , shes just a cow n hey some women are just like that.
I think if you love your brother and hes happy – let it go , if hes not then when they next row or if he mentions he wants out steer him in that direct but the basic rule is stay out of it – because us strong women can come between families and im sure men prefer the love of a woman over the sisterly love – shit but true!
or failing that find him a perfect mate n make it happen ;)

]]> By: The F$%k it List http://bangsandabun.com/2010/07/2019/comment-page-1/#comment-6270 The F$%k it List Thu, 15 Jul 2010 20:30:02 +0000 http://bangsandabun.com/?p=2019#comment-6270 Well now, I have a few brother and each time they bring home a girl for us to meet it's like the grand inquisition. That's just how my family rolls being able to date/marry one of us is not something we take lightly and so you come at your own risks. And most times my brothers have listened and never had to call us in to jack up some skankalicious woman. Well now, I have a few brother and each time they bring home a girl for us to meet it’s like the grand inquisition. That’s just how my family rolls being able to date/marry one of us is not something we take lightly and so you come at your own risks. And most times my brothers have listened and never had to call us in to jack up some skankalicious woman.

]]> By: Ha Ha Sound http://bangsandabun.com/2010/07/2019/comment-page-1/#comment-6257 Ha Ha Sound Thu, 15 Jul 2010 18:01:11 +0000 http://bangsandabun.com/?p=2019#comment-6257 Reminds me of my father's ex-girlfriend. Horrible, horrible woman and he was always trying to get us to be nice to her. When she wasn't even nice to him. My advice to the help-seeker would match Bang's exactly, except that I think it's OK to gently point out to your brother when his girlfriend does something wrong. Don't badmouth her or accuse him of being spineless or anything like that, just point out that you don't agree with her actions. Then let the matter drop entirely. Reminds me of my father’s ex-girlfriend. Horrible, horrible woman and he was always trying to get us to be nice to her. When she wasn’t even nice to him. My advice to the help-seeker would match Bang’s exactly, except that I think it’s OK to gently point out to your brother when his girlfriend does something wrong. Don’t badmouth her or accuse him of being spineless or anything like that, just point out that you don’t agree with her actions.

Then let the matter drop entirely.

]]> By: Smarty P. Jones http://bangsandabun.com/2010/07/2019/comment-page-1/#comment-6243 Smarty P. Jones Thu, 15 Jul 2010 14:04:10 +0000 http://bangsandabun.com/?p=2019#comment-6243 I've found that my brothers listen to what I have to say, do the opposite then when the situation bites them in the ass, I get to say "I told you so." I'd rather they not learn the hard way, but men can be a little slow on the uptake. So, let him learn his lesson. I’ve found that my brothers listen to what I have to say, do the opposite then when the situation bites them in the ass, I get to say “I told you so.” I’d rather they not learn the hard way, but men can be a little slow on the uptake. So, let him learn his lesson.

]]> By: Brian http://bangsandabun.com/2010/07/2019/comment-page-1/#comment-6242 Brian Thu, 15 Jul 2010 14:03:39 +0000 http://bangsandabun.com/?p=2019#comment-6242 You can't help those not wanting assistance. That fool will have to have the light of sanity come to him one morning as he contemplates maxed-out credit cards, a zero-balance on self-esteem, and a distinct lack of friends. Either that or catching her sleeping around. You can’t help those not wanting assistance. That fool will have to have the light of sanity come to him one morning as he contemplates maxed-out credit cards, a zero-balance on self-esteem, and a distinct lack of friends. Either that or catching her sleeping around.

]]> By: JoolsCyprien http://bangsandabun.com/2010/07/2019/comment-page-1/#comment-6228 JoolsCyprien Thu, 15 Jul 2010 11:35:20 +0000 http://bangsandabun.com/?p=2019#comment-6228 Speaking from exsperience my sister and wife didn't get along. My sister told me what she thought about her feelings towards her, hence we fell out and didn't speak for nearly a year. Whatever you think of her best to keep it to yourself as he will most probably take her side. As for buying her shit no way! Speaking from exsperience my sister and wife didn’t get along. My sister told me what she thought about her feelings towards her, hence we fell out and didn’t speak for nearly a year. Whatever you think of her best to keep it to yourself as he will most probably take her side. As for buying her shit no way!

]]> By: Jojotullah http://bangsandabun.com/2010/07/2019/comment-page-1/#comment-6221 Jojotullah Thu, 15 Jul 2010 09:52:42 +0000 http://bangsandabun.com/?p=2019#comment-6221 Oh WOW! To him asking for you to buy his girlfriend things when out shopping! I agree with the advice though. Unfortunately its hard to give advice to brothers on leecher girlfriends. For some reason they are blind to any faults until they are ready! Oh WOW! To him asking for you to buy his girlfriend things when out shopping! I agree with the advice though. Unfortunately its hard to give advice to brothers on leecher girlfriends. For some reason they are blind to any faults until they are ready!

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