Comments on: Addicted http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/ Thu, 17 May 2012 05:29:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Carly http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/comment-page-1/#comment-1909 Carly Fri, 23 Oct 2009 15:21:42 +0000 http://www.bangsandabun.com/?p=159#comment-1909 Wow. Even though this is over a year old, reading it brought back memories of my own. As crazy as it may sound, it makes me feel better to read that someone else went through something like this at 19. I was with someone for two years before the drug abuse started, or more than likely came to light, and it took me another two years to get out of it. Our lives were too intertwined with a home and a business and when I left it all went to pieces. He still FB's me every once in a while, but I have yet to see him again. I don't think I could. He's too far gone. Wow. Even though this is over a year old, reading it brought back memories of my own. As crazy as it may sound, it makes me feel better to read that someone else went through something like this at 19. I was with someone for two years before the drug abuse started, or more than likely came to light, and it took me another two years to get out of it. Our lives were too intertwined with a home and a business and when I left it all went to pieces. He still FB’s me every once in a while, but I have yet to see him again. I don’t think I could. He’s too far gone.

]]> By: Sean http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/comment-page-1/#comment-772 Sean Wed, 29 Oct 2008 11:20:00 +0000 http://www.bangsandabun.com/?p=159#comment-772 Here is the thing, I know you are beyond the point of wanting to be with him but, is it still wise to see him?<br/><br/>If he is still calling you by his pet name for you, is there not a very real possibility that he might still yearn to be with you?<br/><br/>I am not trying to put anything on you but, for the sake of argument, say he is clean, what if your rejection of anything romantic leads him to go back down that path?<br/><br/>Supposedly he has been able to get clean without you in his life, perhaps it is best that you stay out of it since you two were your drugs of choice (okay, you were his second or third drug of choice). Here is the thing, I know you are beyond the point of wanting to be with him but, is it still wise to see him?

If he is still calling you by his pet name for you, is there not a very real possibility that he might still yearn to be with you?

I am not trying to put anything on you but, for the sake of argument, say he is clean, what if your rejection of anything romantic leads him to go back down that path?

Supposedly he has been able to get clean without you in his life, perhaps it is best that you stay out of it since you two were your drugs of choice (okay, you were his second or third drug of choice).

]]> By: Bangs and a Bun http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/comment-page-1/#comment-771 Bangs and a Bun Mon, 27 Oct 2008 11:47:00 +0000 http://www.bangsandabun.com/?p=159#comment-771 Bex - I hear ya. Who knows, by the time I get home, I might have changed my mind anyway!<br/><br/>Sid - There's no danger of me being sucked back into his life...sooooo past that point. But I'm definitely concerned that he hasn't changed. Time will tell, I guess. <br/><br/>Meredith - Thank you me dear. <br/><br/>Vix - It seems like 8 years ago to me, probably because so much has happened between then and now. <br/><br/>Jana - Thank you and good to see you commenting on here again! Bex – I hear ya. Who knows, by the time I get home, I might have changed my mind anyway!

Sid – There’s no danger of me being sucked back into his life…sooooo past that point. But I’m definitely concerned that he hasn’t changed. Time will tell, I guess.

Meredith – Thank you me dear.

Vix – It seems like 8 years ago to me, probably because so much has happened between then and now.

Jana – Thank you and good to see you commenting on here again!

]]> By: jana http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/comment-page-1/#comment-770 jana Thu, 23 Oct 2008 17:53:00 +0000 http://www.bangsandabun.com/?p=159#comment-770 Wow what a story and I have one very similar so I get where you are coming from. Personally, I would need and want to see the person and make sure that all is well too...and really why we he go to the bother of trying to contact you if it wasn't true?<br/>Good luck and of course be careful Wow what a story and I have one very similar so I get where you are coming from. Personally, I would need and want to see the person and make sure that all is well too…and really why we he go to the bother of trying to contact you if it wasn’t true?
Good luck and of course be careful

]]> By: Vix http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/comment-page-1/#comment-769 Vix Wed, 22 Oct 2008 18:24:00 +0000 http://www.bangsandabun.com/?p=159#comment-769 I can't believe that was 8 years ago Mizz, seems like it was only the other day! I can’t believe that was 8 years ago Mizz, seems like it was only the other day!

]]> By: Meredith http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/comment-page-1/#comment-768 Meredith Wed, 22 Oct 2008 15:19:00 +0000 http://www.bangsandabun.com/?p=159#comment-768 I love how you are able to be scathing in one post, hilarious in another, and vulnerable in the third. Your ability to tell the truth, regardless of what people think, is a very admirable quality. I love how you are able to be scathing in one post, hilarious in another, and vulnerable in the third. Your ability to tell the truth, regardless of what people think, is a very admirable quality.

]]> By: sid http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/comment-page-1/#comment-767 sid Wed, 22 Oct 2008 11:46:00 +0000 http://www.bangsandabun.com/?p=159#comment-767 Shit. I'm be so scared if I were in your position. What if he hasn't changed. What if he sucks you back into his life? Everything of the best. Shit. I’m be so scared if I were in your position. What if he hasn’t changed. What if he sucks you back into his life? Everything of the best.

]]> By: Bex http://bangsandabun.com/2008/10/addicted/comment-page-1/#comment-766 Bex Wed, 22 Oct 2008 10:58:00 +0000 http://www.bangsandabun.com/?p=159#comment-766 Oh my gosh hun is it that long ago??! I remember this 'episode'....be careful!<br/><br/>If i were u i'd leave him where he belongs, in your past!<br/><br/>xxx Oh my gosh hun is it that long ago??! I remember this ‘episode’….be careful!

If i were u i’d leave him where he belongs, in your past!

xxx

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